7/18/2008 8:04:53 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

sirbowvier
Memphis, TN
age: 45


1. be stead fast and wait she will come
2. yes you could have missed your black queen
3. God created them all so who cares


I AM A AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE 44 SINGLE WITH NO CHILDREN. i HAVE really BEEN IN SEARCH OF A WIFE,OF THE OPPOSITE RACE.i GREW UP IN THE NORTH AROUND THE MAJORITY OG PEOPLE OF THE OPPOSITE RACE EVEN IN SCHOOL 1-6 GRADE ONLY 4 AFRICAN AMERICANS IN THE WHOLE SCHOOL. SO MY LOVE FOR THEM STARTED YOUNG. THIS IS NOT TO SAY ALL WOMEN ARE NOT BEAUTFUL CREATIONS OF GOD. IS THIS WRONG IN MY SEARCH? tHIS HAS CAUSED PROBLEMS BLACK WOMEN DONT LIKE ME SAYING I WANT TO BE WHITE ( WHAT EVER THAT MEANS ) OH I AM EDUCATED AND TALK CORRECTELY ( MOST OF THE TIME) WHO KNOWS . AND WHITE WOMEN IN THE SOUTH SEEM TO FEAR IT.WILL I EVEF FIND HERE SIGNED TIRED AND LONELY



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7/18/2008 8:05:33 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

tlc4u46
Over 2,000 Posts (3,225)
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47


First off what is the opposite race?

7/18/2008 8:25:15 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

fthornton423
Cordova, TN
age: 26


Man, we're living in the 21st century. If race is still an issue there are plenty of religious communities, camps, and segregated places where people like that can go. For those of us in my general generation give or take some years its become widely accepted and the concept of interracial relationships shows the growing diversity of our country, which is a beautiful thing. After all, isn't that the basis we founded America on? To be accepted as our own people with freedome of religion, government, and a since of individualism? Sad it took several hundred years for people to start catching on, huh?

Ahhh, another Memphian. Kind of changes things. Look at it this way. Take the cultural diversity that is flourishing up north. The acceptance level they have takes southerners about 50+ years to catch up too. Its like living in another country, wind pants are probably just now getting cool in Europe =P Give it time and don't give up. There are people who look past the social norm and accept everyone for who they really are and if they don't...well they are the ones hindering society from moving forward towards a more unified whole.



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7/18/2008 8:27:50 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

thebestman
Over 2,000 Posts (3,712)
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34


Why worry about what other people think and you are the one in control of your life? It's your life. Date whomever you want to date. It's not what other people think, it's what you think.

Other people do not pay your mortgage, other people don't buy your groceries, other people didn't buy the vehicle you drive in. You purchased those things because you like them right? So date whomever you want. Forget what other people think. They are not making you happy. You make yourself happy along with the woman you are dating.

7/18/2008 8:28:16 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

katriotic
Memphis, TN
age: 25


welcome to the south home of close minded a**holes!.. and we live in memphrica.. ya i said it... and u know y.. cuz ur from here.. u get it! hehe.. good luck!

7/18/2008 10:23:21 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 
refinedprincess
Westland, MI
age: 34


Well there is someone for everyone and if it's your preference to date white women then go for it but being in the south your options are somewhat limited and for many reasons. But don't limit yourself to just one race or you will be waiting for a while.

If it has caused problems with black women because you tell them you prefer white women well you don't have to tell nobody what your preference is and not just that who cares. Everyone has a preference or opinion!!!

Good Luck

7/18/2008 10:32:00 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 
tony6464
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 44


There's nothing wrong with falling in love with someone of a diff race . But why do you prefer that do you not like black women

7/18/2008 10:33:20 PMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 
florida_gardens
North Port, FL
age: 57


I had to wait until I left the south (no, Florida is not a southern state where interracial dating is concerned) before I dated a black man. I never regretted it, and I would have married him too, but alas, he was a player.

7/19/2008 12:00:47 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

clubkid66
Over 1,000 Posts (1,769)
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42


There is only color and culture and if you like who you like then do what you want. It's your life right?

7/19/2008 10:04:27 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

blckmistress
Bronx, NY
age: 28


It's your life. Who cares what the rest think. Whatever makes you happy go for it.

7/19/2008 10:10:33 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 
ankandie
Piscataway, NJ
age: 42


Quote from thebestman:
Why worry about what other people think and you are the one in control of your life? It's your life. Date whomever you want to date. It's not what other people think, it's what you think.

Other people do not pay your mortgage, other people don't buy your groceries, other people didn't buy the vehicle you drive in. You purchased those things because you like them right? So date whomever you want. Forget what other people think. They are not making you happy. You make yourself happy along with the woman you are dating.


Please listen to this guy.

7/19/2008 10:11:19 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

magtag
Over 1,000 Posts (1,757)
East York, ON
age: 42


You like what you like. You're attracted to whom you're attracted. Nothing wrong with that. Those that can't accept that we are all individuals who have a right to like whatever the heck we like are very closed minded and limiting. I just don't listen to or acknowledge that type at all...just not worth my time.

7/19/2008 10:13:27 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

kgearly1021
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,462)
Valdosta, GA
age: 48


I am still concerned about this OPPOSITE race thing. Exactly what is that?

7/19/2008 10:19:47 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 
lonelykittencal
Los Angeles, CA
age: 20


Quote from thebestman:
Why worry about what other people think and you are the one in control of your life? It's your life. Date whomever you want to date. It's not what other people think, it's what you think.

Other people do not pay your mortgage, other people don't buy your groceries, other people didn't buy the vehicle you drive in. You purchased those things because you like them right? So date whomever you want. Forget what other people think. They are not making you happy. You make yourself happy along with the woman you are dating.

EXACTLY

I see no problem with preferring a different color of women. I'm kinda prone to white guys myself but it isn't set in stone.

when I first read the thread too, i also wondered what opposite race was. I mean I'm going to assume (which I probably shouldn't be doing) since he's "black" that when he says opposite he means "white". So I'm wondering what's the opposite of Mexican, Asian, etc etc? clarification would be nice of course.

7/19/2008 10:40:35 AMam i wrong due to the fact i love women of opposite race 

rojamami
Over 1,000 Posts (1,957)
Brunswick, GA
age: 46


There is only one race, HUMAN, don't
let people get you down.